I know that it is just assumed that everyone loves their child, but I am not so sure that if you ask the kids themselves they would be able to say yes. So many fathers are cold and distant with their kids and especially if they are divorced. So many parents don't show their kids the amount of love the children crave, that leaves the child frustrated and angry and causes resentment in the child. This causes behaviors in the child. Now let's be honest when the child acts up and causes the parent more stress then this in turn strains the parents feelings toward the child, and so goes the vicious cycle.
When your child knows they are cherished and adored they are much more peaceful and compliant and then you as the parent can enjoy them more and more and then the love can grow and that can be a wonderful cycle.
Don't just tell your child you love them show them every day don't let a hour go by that you don't tell them, they do need to hear it from you, but just as importantly they need to see and feel it from you!!
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