Important Lesson A Must Read!!!!!!

Natalie and I are having a blast!!! I am on the computer today because Natalie isn't home. She wants my undivided attention and I want her to have it. We have been to a Reds game, the movies, cayaking in an inflatable raft! and laughed till we nearly pee our pants!! We have stayed up late and slept till 2 in the afternoon and we have enjoyed what Nat calls the big suppers! She is my focus and even though I am not always hers I realize that is the way it is supposed to be. I heard something in a movie once when I was a child and I wished my mother believed that way and I decided I would. I want to share it with you now. There was this woman who went through a divorce and had started to date and this was causing her son a lot of pain. A very wise lady spoke to her about her son's happiness and she replied what about my happiness. The wise lady told her now listen close

Your happiness can never be as important to you as his until he grows to become a man


And that's the truth people your kids come before you so what you do is you let your happiness come from seeing them happy. Enjoy them put them first, they will be such wonderful kids never causing you problems and they will excel in what they do giving you great pride!!! You will have plenty of time for foolishness when they are grown, put everything you have in your kids!! They are the ones who will be there for you when you are on your death bed!